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Duwan Dunn's avatar

Yes, I want to see everything. But we spent 6 months in PerΓΊ and probably won't go back. We passed by lots of stuff, but we also saw things and had experiences that most people don't have.

There is so much stuff to see, do, and experience all over the world, if I miss one thing, there is something else amazing right down the road.

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Daniel Catena's avatar

Six months is a long time! You've definitely seen the country on a deeper level than most travelers. It's also special when you feel like you've seen everything you wanted to in a place and are ready to move on to the next stop. Thank you for commenting!

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Stormy's avatar

When I really enjoy a place, and I didn't see everything that was on the "must see" list, I am secretly relieved. I have a reason to come back!

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Daniel Catena's avatar

Very good point. If you do it all in one try, then there's not as much incentive to return. Also, if you go again with people who are there for the first time it brings back the newness feeling. Thanks for reading Stormy!

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Toni Jeffrey's avatar

I SO agree with your statement that "traveling should be more about the intention behind it, the laughs you share, and the memories you create."

St Peter's Basilica was hot and overcrowded. The Louvre was mostly forgettable and overcrowded. Several of the Smithsonian museums are dumb (with the notable exception of the National Portrait Gallery). Our four-mile hike at Yosemite had me fearing for my safety. Who compiles these lists of must-see attractions???

My favorite visits were the attractions we spontaneously encountered, as well as OMG, the gelato in Italy we gorged ourselves on.

That said, the Eiffel Tower was even greater than I expected. Go there.

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Daniel Catena's avatar

Absolutely Toni! The best moments happen when we least expect them. Often, they're unplanned and sometimes uncomfortable. I'm happy this post resonated with you!

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Marlo Leaman's avatar

Traveling just scratches the surface as there is soo much in this big, beautiful world! You're right-- Traveling should be about the intention, the laughs, and the memories! Amen to that!

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Daniel Catena's avatar

This world truly is amazing! That's great you feel the same way. Thanks for reading Marlo!

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Betty Carlson's avatar

I've lived in the same European country for 35 years and now realize I haven't even scratched the surface -- thus my travel and Substack project. I've been to about 15 countries and may fit one or two more into my lifetime, but France is going to stay my focus now. Living in a country is not like traveling, and time has just gone by too fast with life, family and work. It's time to start seeing as much as I can -- and as you say, I still won't be able to see everything.

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Daniel Catena's avatar

That's amazing you've called France home for that much time! Once you settle into a place, so many details emerge that aren't visible when you're just passing through. I'm starting to discover this in Colombia, but I haven't been here that long yet! Thank you for reading and I want to read more of your French-inspired content!

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Betty Carlson's avatar

I remember when I first moved here, meeting Americans and Brits who had lived here for 20 years or more and it seemed unimaginable. Now here I am...sometimes I can't believe it myself.

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Jeanine Kitchel's avatar

It's good to have travel goals but maybe not too expansive. You're right, slow travel can offer really neat opportunities that you might miss if you're rushing through.

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Daniel Catena's avatar

Yes, definitely. Keeping things open invites spontaneous opportunities! Thank you for reading and the comment Jeanine!

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